Can you enjoy other forms of sex? You should definitely avoid having oral sex if either of you has sores around your mouth, vagina, penis or anus. The willingness to learn and the ability to adapt are two things that will mean more to your girlfriend than doing the exact right thing. Please note that we are unable to respond to any questions, or offer advice or information in relation to personal matters. I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend also 19 for a little over two years. Since it sounds like you two are just starting to explore sex and may not have much on the menu right now, that might be a lot easier than it seems.
Imagine just rubbing the head of the penis without the shaft — that would be similar to rubbing just the head of the clitoris without rubbing the legs.
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Sexually transmitted infections STIs such as herpesgonorrhoea and syphilis can be passed on through oral sex. I'm also not really on board with the idea that genitals trump other body parts, which, I think, is some of what framing oral sex as something that requires oral sex for reciprocity kind of presumes. Really, really passionately kiss her. Most women need both penetration and oral to fully achieve the highest amount of pleasure. I'd say you also might want to check in and make sure this isn't a variation on a theme.